Proverbs 18 · a question people ask
"there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother" (18:24). Is this friend Jesus?
The saying doesn't say who the friend is. Here it is whole: "A man of many companions may be ruined, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother" (18:24). It sets two things side by side: many companions, and one friend. In Hebrew companions is re'im, and friend is ohev, a form of the verb love (tap friend). Sticks is daveq, a word the Hebrew Bible has only three times (tap sticks). The chapter has spoken of a brother before: "A brother offended is more difficult than a fortified city" (18:19). No New Testament verse quotes this saying or says who the friend is, and these notes don't say the friend is anyone. What the saying does say is that there is such a friend. The book says more of friends and brothers: "A friend loves at all times; and a brother is born for adversity" (Proverbs 17:17), and the notes on Proverbs 17 set the two sayings side by side.
The verses
“A brother offended is more difficult than a fortified city. Disputes are like the bars of a fortress.”
“A man of many companions may be ruined, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.”
“A friend loves at all times; and a brother is born for adversity.”