Matthew 18 · a question people ask
What does "let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector" (18:17) mean?
Matthew gives the steps in Jesus's words and doesn't explain the last of them. First, "go, show him his fault between you and him alone" (18:15); then "take one or two more with you" (18:16); then "tell it to the assembly" (18:17); and "If he refuses to hear the assembly also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector" (18:17). Matthew says no more about what that means, and these notes don't either. They apply none of 18:15-17 to any church's practice today or to anyone's own conflict, and name the Gentiles and the tax collectors only as the text names them, applying the words to no people today.
The verses
““If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother. But if he doesn’t listen, take one or two more with you, that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly. If he refuses to hear the assembly also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector.”