Genesis 35 · a question people ask
Did Reuben's act with Bilhah have consequences?
This chapter says only, "Israel heard of it" (35:22). On his deathbed Jacob tells Reuben, "you shall not excel, because you went up to your father’s bed" (49:3-4). Chronicles explains: "because he defiled his father’s couch, his birthright was given to the sons of Joseph the son of Israel" (1 Chronicles 5:1).
The verses
“While Israel lived in that land, Reuben went and lay with Bilhah, his father’s concubine, and Israel heard of it. Now the sons of Jacob were twelve.”
““Reuben, you are my firstborn, my might, and the beginning of my strength, excelling in dignity, and excelling in power. Boiling over like water, you shall not excel, because you went up to your father’s bed, then defiled it. He went up to my couch.”
“The sons of Reuben the firstborn of Israel (for he was the firstborn, but because he defiled his father’s couch, his birthright was given to the sons of Joseph the son of Israel; and the genealogy is not to be listed according to the birthright.”