Bible study · 2 Samuel 13:1-39
2 Samuel 13: No such thing in Israel
Read 2 Samuel 13:1-39 before you meet.
In a few lines
Tamar answers in words Israel had heard before: "no such thing ought to be done in Israel" and "folly" (13:12) are, in Hebrew, the words of Genesis 34:7, and her "garment of various colors" (13:18) is the Hebrew of Joseph's tunic (Genesis 37:3), whose father also "mourned for his son" (Genesis 37:34).
The verse to carry
“But Absalom fled and went to Talmai the son of Ammihur, king of Geshur. David mourned for his son every day.”
2 Samuel 13:37
To talk about
1. The chapter keeps Tamar's own words (13:12-13, 13:16). When someone tells you they have been wronged, what helps you listen well?
2. David was very angry (13:21), and Absalom spoke to Amnon neither good nor bad for two years (13:22-23). What have you seen anger do in a family when it is never spoken or dealt with?
3. David mourned for his son every day and longed to go out to Absalom (13:37-39). Where do you take grief that you can't fix?